Tragedy in Wisconsin
So, like me, have you been
hearing the news about all the shootings around the country of late? I heard a report that indicated the person accused of the shooting in the Milwaukee
area was the estranged husband of one of the victims, and that his wife (or
ex-wife) was killed in the shooting. I
have heard of this kind of thing far too many times, haven’t you? A divorce, battles over custody, and
estranged husband (usually) vents his anger and frustration with a gun or other
weapon, killing his ex and sometimes the children, too, before taking his own
life. People shake their heads in
disbelief, wondering how anybody could DO something like that.
Although,
I suspect there are a great many of us individuals who have gone through the
process of divorce, and we have an idea how it could happen. Not that we all were tempted to do something
that awful, but we certainly understand how tempers can flare and how intense
and confused the emotions can get during a divorce. The hurt, rejection, frustration with and ex
or with the court…...it can simply become overwhelming.
So
we need to pray for the families of the victims in these shootings. But we need to do more than that. We need to be sensitive to individuals
experiencing divorce, and try to help encourage them through their emotional
upheaval in healthy ways (which, by the way, is central to the purpose of my
book). All too often, people are left to
sort out their struggle by themselves, without the listening ear of friends or
the guidance of wise counsel. And the
intensity of the hurt, isolation and betrayal simply overwhelms them until they
can’t handle it any more. Oh, it doesn't always play out in destructive behaviors with guns. Sometimes it manifests itself in drunkenness,
or through illicit relationships, or other apparently “crazy” behavior. I believe it is important for people like you
and I, people who have some idea of how difficult it can be, to be the kind of
people that folks struggling with divorce can turn to in their times of hurt
and loneliness. I hope that my little
book helps prevent tragedies like those we hear about in the news. And maybe your involvement may do the same
with somebody you know and care about.
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